The Christmas Blues

It’s a busy time of year, no doubt. The clock is ticking away toward Christmas, and every day to do lists have grown to an unnatural size. The world hasn’t stopped to allow us the peace to enjoy the season, but instead ramped up it’s expectations. And unfortunately we tend to do the same forContinue reading “The Christmas Blues”

The fork in the road : switching psychotropic meds after 20 years

It’s been months since I’ve written in this blog. I was using the excuse that I had nothing to write, or that I didn’t have the time. I know though, that the only real barrier was and always will be myself and my ego. My fear of being judged, or somehow letting someone down isContinue reading “The fork in the road : switching psychotropic meds after 20 years”

The Slow Return to “Normal”

The birds are chirping outside and it’s a beautiful Saturday morning. The trees outside my window are sporting new buds and the grass is growing at an alarmingly fast rate. We made it to Spring. Spring is a always a magical time of rebirth and renewal, but it holds special significance this year. The darknessContinue reading “The Slow Return to “Normal””

Dark Days

If you battle with depression, you likely have good days and bad. Highs and lows. Sometimes it correlates to life events and hardships, and sometimes it surfaces when you least expect it. Depression has no rules.  There is no calendar, and no periodic schedule that can help me prepare for it. It can cause anxietyContinue reading “Dark Days”

Grit: What it is, and why it’s the most important lesson you can teach your child

Today’s children have been brought into a world of instant gratification. You complete a small task, you are rewarded. You take part in an activity, you are rewarded. While positive reinforcement is good and helps a child learn self-esteem, it can cause harm as well. They can become used to the instant reward, the prizeContinue reading “Grit: What it is, and why it’s the most important lesson you can teach your child”

For the love of naps

I rarely remember my dreams, but I know I have them. Although I can’t normally recall what happened, the feelings from them linger when I wake. Today those feelings were of being panicked, helpless, and alone. Unfortunately that’s a pretty common theme for me. Why? I’m not exactly sure. If I had to hazard aContinue reading “For the love of naps”

A light in the darkness

Mondays are always hard. Mondays during a pandemic, in the middle of winter, are a different beast altogether. Today is a remote learning day for my girls. Here we sit at the dining room table. Both girls are on their school chrome books and I am on my laptop, while the snow falls quietly outside.Continue reading “A light in the darkness”